Things are a bit tough for me lately. Juggling responsibilities seemed to be taking a toll at me and my OCD personality is just not letting me off the stupid little promises that I made for myself.

But life shouldn’t be about responsibilities. Life is a privilege.

You just think you’re being swallowed whole but you’re not. You’re just having this perspective that this warped-up view is controlling you.

Enjoy this privilege. Have fun. Have too much fun, stumble. Then have fun again.

I’m not turning you guys into hedonism. Just so we’re clear.

Just let fun be your life goal. Help yourself to have more fun.

I’ve just realized lately that I have too much on my shoulders but in reality I’m just allowing them to weigh me down.

Responsibilities:
1. Work/Finances
2. Love life
3. Visa problems
4. Health issues
5. Family
6. Etc.

Hwew! Just listing them is weighing me down already. Writing ‘etc’ for number 6 might be my way of denying that I do have responsibilities. LOL!

I’m going to throw caution to the wind and look at obstacles as opportunities.

I slacked off yesterday and ate without a care. A good friend suggested to make yesterday my cheat day. So I did! I regret it a little but past is past. I made the most out of it by eating sweets and other stuff that shouldn’t be in the house in the first place.

(Chocnuts! Yum yum yum!)

And it’s okay! I still achieved something yesterday. I learned that I will feel like crap if I eat crap. Time was still not wasted. Had fun, got sick. Now I’m back. Life experience++!

Never think of things you have to do as grueling. Making them fun for you will do wonders. You’ll actually age backwards.

The tricky part would be how you’d go about it. Say you hate your work, or you’re having boyfriend/marital problems.

People who dwell on their problems and responsibilities get stressed that they could not think clearly. The cycle repeats when this non-clarity affects your life and brings you more problems.

Remember, life is a privilege but it doesn’t control you. Have fun with it. When you’re stress out, you get over problems more quickly.

See? Having fun actually helps you. Proven biologically and psychologically, backed by scientific research. Google it.

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Told ya! What’s your excuse now?

Get outta here. Have fun. Breeze through life. Age reversely.

You’ll be having so much fun you’re going to make other people want to join you. 😉